Know what you can and cannot control. | by Sue Pats | Dec, 2021


Sue Pats

Came across with many (including myself) didn’t know the difference in these 2 things and created a lot of agony in the life. Once you know this, oh, what a freedom!

I am Sue Pats; sharing my journey, my blessings with you all. Sharing some principles which helped us in our business from the great leaders and mainly our mentorship team. Came across with this life changing mentorship team with business that changed our lives for good. So just sharing our testimony to inform you. In case of any question, don’t hesitate to contact us; we will love to answer every question you have. In case we don’t have an answer, sure can recommend to someone who can guide you. Details on our journey is on

We got started on our business just to make some money, to create choices, options in our lives. Who knew that this business would help us in each and every areas of our lives? But that surely happened, now it is our chance to spread our blessings to others.

This is a social media era and when you are finding out any new thing, we want you to have enough information and trust about the project you are looking into and that is why we want you to have complete information about our mentorship team and our team wants to know relevant information about you; before we proceed further. That is why we have little longer screening process before they can start on our project.

So, back to what you can control and what you cannot.

It’s easy to feel stuck in a rut when we focus on what we cannot control. Conversely, when we focus on what we can control, we can feel good, confident, empowered, and a sense of achievement. Indeed, the more we focus on things outside of our control, the more likely we are to feel anxiety, anger, and disappointment. Conversely, when we focus on what we can control, we can feel good, confident, empowered, and a sense of achievement. But how do we recognize what is inside and outside of our control?

The diagram is self explanatory; just to simplify any action coming from outside or others, we cannot control since we don’t know what they are thinking, what is their background, what they are going through. In some cases we might know these things too, still not every person behaves the same way in every situation; so how can you predict? Even if you predict, it may not be as per your expectations; so why bother? The only person in any situation can be controlled is “Self”; no one else. Now when we say control, means better be positive thoughts, talks than negative; but that will be another topic for blog. I just like to keep my blogs short and just to make a point. So enough for now. God Bless.

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