Not too long ago, I was informed by my company that they would be letting me go at the end of that month. They assured me it was not my performance but the fact that they were up against financial constraints that did not allow them to continue hiring me. Regardless of the reason, I was left feeling dejected. I even criticised myself, thinking their reasons were just an excuse and I ultimately was the problem. I had feelings of not being good enough and wondered what I would have to do to ensure I impressed my next employer.
Then, dead at the end of the month, something amazing happened that, while it didn’t immediately get me another job, helped to change my entire way of thinking completely! My best friend, whom I had told about the incident sent me a text message on my last day of work. The message read:
“Today you graduated. You just finished your course in Insurance Accounting! You should buy yourself a little snack for the occasion.”
Her message made me laugh, it made me smile, and it made me feel so much better about having to leave my job than I could have scarcely imagined before. From that moment on, I did not see myself as a person who wasn’t good enough to keep. Instead, I saw myself as the individual who had gained a wealth of experience in a job I truly did enjoy at the time and was now looking forward to embarking on a new journey, where I could share my experiences with others.
The problem was, I had been thinking about all that I had lost, rather than everything I had gained. Rather than moping about and wondering about what I was going to do next, I should have been looking forward to the little vacation I had just received. What I had not realised, was that a world of exciting new opportunities had just opened up to me as a result of all the skills I had gained in my prior job.
Because when you change your perspective, the world opens up to you in ways you could have never thought possible before. And that’s exactly what happened to me.
Now I am back at home, and I have more time to focus on my writing and promote myself as a writer, proofreader and editor. I have more time to focus on myself and take part in the things that really matter to me. I have even received opportunities to connect with new and old contacts alike, who have seen my positive energy and were more than happy to recommend my services to others.
And while success does not happen overnight, I am happy with the progress I am making and I continue to stay positive. Because I truly believe that one’s outlook on life has a lot to do with where one eventually ends up.